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Richard is from United States

Richard (55)

Good man seeking love Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 50 for Penpal

~Max Muller I'm a simple man who takes pleasure and finds joy in the simple things of life. I'm looking for a woman with a similar outlook. Sharing love in a committed, meaningful partnership amplifies the joys and eases the burdens of life. It is the only way we can achieve our full potential and realize the full measure of happiness and joy we are meant to have. I'm seeking genuine friendship and companionship with a woman who I can enjoy all sorts of fun activities with. A woman who can be just as happy hanging out doing "whatever" as she can taking part in making and executing grand plans. I am by nature quiet and reserved (ISTP), but I do enjoy meaningful conversation about the things that truly resonate and matter in life. I enjoy meeting after work for a walk, or some other fun activity... concerts, museums, bike rides, hikes. Ask me over to fix a leaky faucet or for yard work. Go for a drive, grab a quick bite to eat, or have a nice dinner, see a movie, a play. In short, I want to be involved in each other's real lives, including the mundane daily things. Ultimately I want a genuine connection and LTR... spiritual, emotional, physical. A life partner. I want to love and be loved, to give love and receive love. I have three adult daughters, all out on their own. I've lived in the DC area for 20 years. I grew up in Arizona, have a good career in IT. I have a calm, soft spoken nature, reserved, thoughtful, self aware. I'm an introvert, but social and engaging. I'm on a journey to become more self and spiritually aware, mindful of being in the present moment and to deepen my spirituality and connection with God. I enjoy daily meditating. I get a lot of satisfaction and fulfillment from helping others. I believe the very best thing one can do with their life is to do their best to bless the lives of others. I spend a significant amount of my spare time volunteering to help others. I particularly enjoy the persona, one-on-one opportunities to serve. About you: I'm not looking for just anyone. I'm looking for the right one. What really matters about you is not what you have, or what you do for a living, or where you've traveled, but rather who you are and how you treat others. Kindness and compassion for others are qualities I seek. If you practice meditation and have a relationship with God, those are definite pluses. You are also healthy, fit and active, you like being outdoors, or dressing up for a formal occasion. Enough can't be said for chemistry. It's either there, or isn't Maybe it's a matter of being in the right frame of mind, or perhaps it's just two people being on the same frequency. Who knows for sure? I only know it seems to be essential for a lasting relationship. I don't think it can be manufactured. Finally, if you made it this far, we all want to present our best self here in our profile. In reality we are all human, with hopes and dreams and good qualities, but also fears, flaws and insecurities, Let's be truthful and open. Be our true self. Like everyone, I am far from perfect and have made my share of mistakes and bad choices. I've had my share of sadness, disappointment, and broken hearts. I have also been the cause of some as well. I think I have learned from these life experiences, which have resulted in personal growth have helped me become a more compassionate and understanding, more loving and forgiving person each day. Some days I succeed. Some days I need could do better. I hope to meet someone on the same journey who agrees that our past does not have to determine our future. Best wishes to all. If any of this resonates, please send a brief note and say hello. It is the 21st century after all. Women have earned the right to make the first move. :) If all you do is look, and don't at least say hi, I can only assume you are not interested. I hope to hear from you.


Dom is from United States

Dom (37)

Looking for someone mature and ho... Manassas, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40 for Penpal

I don't know where to begin. I always trying to stay positive and generous when I'm with others. I'm neither outgoing nor shy. I'm polite, respectful, and most of all I'm gentleman who knows how to treats his lady. I stay true to my values. I'm a father of two beautiful girls. My kids are important to me. I'm looking for a long term relationship, but I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to the person first.

Ja'shawn is from United States

Ja'shawn (42)

The perfect Husband Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40 for Penpal

I'm very ambitous, and nothing stops me from getting what i want i'm affectionate,and love to give lots of attention to who i'm with.. i dont smoke, i occasionally drink (mostly wine) i love to cook, and clean and take care of myself, i dont need a woman for those things, i have a nice home and nice car and make good money, but i'm missing love, true unconditional love... I need You Mi Amor !!!!


Dheme is from United States

Dheme (36)

Could you be the one I've been se... Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 37 for Penpal

Mature professional new to site and looking to move to Dominican Republic. I am currently looking for a caring woman to spend time with during my stay in Dominican Republic who is looking to have fun and get to know each other and possibly turn into something more serious..


Luis M is from United States

Luis M (54)

Let's Rock this World Baby Centreville, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 41 for Penpal

Me considero que fui una persona muy trabajadora, siempre usando la cabeza y a la vez combinada con los negocios, pero ya no tengo 20 anos entonces he bajado el ritmo un poco pues ya logre ciertas cosas en la vida q me permitan tener tal vez una vejez tranquila. Los fines de semana generalmente me gusta ponerme bien bonito y salir con mi paraja o a bailar, al cine o a una reunion familiar. Me considero una persona muy sociable pues cuando vivi en Peru trabaje como cajero en el Banco de la Nacion. Me gusta trabajar para mi pareja pero tambien quisiera que ella ponga de su parte por que en el equipo somos dos y no solo uno. Y........ muchas cosas mas por que nosotros como seres humanos somos muy complejos pero tambien podemos ser lo contrario.


Charlie is from United States

Charlie (31)

Searching... Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25 for Penpal

I currently work in the Alaskan Arctic and fly back and forth from VA. So I'm not always around. Some day soon I am interested in starting a farm and living self sufficiently off the land. I've been married and have a young son. You could say I learned my lesson and will be much more careful in who choose this time.


Izzy is from United States

Izzy (42)

Down-to-earth, funny, and high on... Burke, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 43 for Penpal

I'm a down-to-earth guy who appreciates the real important things in life; family, friends, and a strong relationship. I devoted my previous years to my family and my career. Now, I want to enjoy what life has to offer, travel, have a more active lifestyle, get back into Latin dancing, and find someone who will enjoy those things with me. I've never married, don't have kids or pets, but I'm a great uncle, hint!


 swim is from United States

swim (34)

buscando 1 hermosa mujer interesa... Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 37 for Penpal

tantas mujeres hermosas en Cupido latina en busca de 1 que se interesa. I live in Virginia Beach, VA I mostly work I have a fashion online boutique. I’m funny, caring, honest, compassionate, sweet, faithful and very romantic! Love going to the beach, having dinner at restaurants, cuddling watching movies. Looking for casual communication with a beautiful Latina that could lead to romance!

Darkman is from United States

Darkman (53)

Guy just want to have FUN! Dale City, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 45 for Penpal

I am an active out doors type of person who enjoys camping, hiking and fishing. I enjoy exercising in and outdoors. I love sports especially football. I am into healthy eating but will occasionally splurge. I consider myself a spiritual person. I like to travel and meeting new people in new places. I enjoy all types of music including R&B, rap, Soul, Christian and jazz.


J is from United States

J (38)

Looking for love Dale City, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45 for Penpal

No se por que es tan dificil encontrar a mi media mitad, pero sigo buscando, tengo fe que la voy a encontrar...Soy humilde, divertido, fiel, y honesto. A mi me gusta mucho reir y disfrutar la vida. Soy profesor de salsa (literalmente) y estoy obsesionado de baile y musica. Tambien me importa mucho viajar y ver todo lo que el mundo tiene y me muero compartir todo lo que yo tengo con mi pareja.


Alex is from United States

Alex (42)

Hello Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 37 for Penpal

So here's the question-"Is it actually possible to find love(like) on an online dating site?" Maybe, maybe not! All I ask from any of you is PLEASE if you feel the need to mis-represent yourself, just skip my profile- thank you. A friend is like a flower, a rose to be exact, Or maybe like a brand new gate that never comes unlatched. A friend is like an owl, both beautiful and wise. Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost, whose spirit never dies. A friend is like a heart that goes strong until the end. Where would we be in this world if we didn't have a friend. I will admit that friendship is a good place to start a relationship but I am for the most part, looking for something pretty stable. Let's face it, dating isn't easy and finding the right one to date is even harder, but I think we all get points for just putting ourselves "out there" on this website. The woman for me is one that likes to do some of the same things but is also different enough that I could learn some things from her (or the opposite) Make sense? I would also like a woman that has a career or at least has a goal to have one. It doesn't matter how much money you make or don't make- as long as you can take care of yourself. Bottom line, I respect a woman that's making a living. The rest is icing- very good looking,funny, likes old school R&B, and kindness to respect me at all times as a man and a father. Other interest-I like to work out(not to the extreme) but enough to stay in shape. I also like to watch sporting events, basketball mainly(NBA) and football.


Erich is from United States

Erich (47)

The reward is worthy of the risk.... Fredericksburg, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 35 for Penpal

Me: "I am a genuine, down to earth guy with a welcoming sense of humor. I have a very eclectic taste in music and movies and always interested in trying something new. I've spent a lot of time and energy on my education, and I am very proud/pleased with the result. I enjoy skiing, golf, happy hours, little known musicians, coffee, wine and traveling (especially if it contains the aforementioned items). " Her: "I enjoy meeting open minded people who enjoy exploring new places and trying new things. Anyone who is easy-going, sociable, and loves to laugh will get along great with me." A few fun facts about Me: - At 17, I considered myself a commercial fishing prodigy. - I'm a published author. Granted, in academia, but the day isn't over. - Yes, I am also a grad student, ironic, since I have my Master's Degree, but I love to continue learning. - When I receive my doctorate in 2 years, yes, people will have to call me "doctor", even though I won't be the kind that helps people. - I am an experienced kickballer. - I once got a chance to tell John Stewart a joke. I am not sure if he REALLY liked it, but, at worst, I got a courtesy laugh. - I've lived in Alaska, and I am thankful for every single day that is over 32 degrees! - My passport contains one stamp for lovely Montreal, Canda and Santo Domningo, Dominican Republic. - Despite being a Steelers and Penguins fan, I cheer for the Nats in baseball. I've been finding new ways to stay active, including kickball and flag football teams through Sport and Social (we didn't win the sport, but we always won the social). In the winter I tend to play racquetball and basketball instead.


william is from United States

william (48)

Hi.. Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45 for Penpal

I am an introverted extrovert, with all that it entails. I am a creature of contradictions – a bodybuilding bookworm, a night owl who’s an early riser, an active guy who loves to be lazy on Sundays. I’m always interested in learning new things, whe

Frank is from United States

Frank (51)

I live for adventure Alexandria, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 44 for Penpal

Well here is the executive summary: Im well traveled (17 countries), open minded and love to laugh. I make others laugh that hang around me. Life is short so enjoy. I work hard; well educated, both culturally and academically. Im still working on figuring out what i want to be when I grow

Randy is from United States

Randy (47)

He who laughs last, thinks slowes... Dale City, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 40 for Penpal

Very giving and understanding but knows when being taken advantage of. Not too good to be true. Very secure with self but not arrogant or cocky. Believes in giving mentally, emotionally, spiritually, & physically. Not the greatest looking, but definately not ugly, not photogenic. Senses the needs of others & is able to deliver: Adaptive to mood and emotional, mental, physical states wirh 99.9% accuracy. Enjoy free climbing, rappelling, snowboarding, sailing, surfing, skydiving, base jumping, rugby, hockey, & soccer. Love to travel & see new places. Hate being stuck in a rut, or indoors for too long, on occasion is ok especially when watching movies or jus hanging out with friends. Very open minded, non-judgmental.


Henry is from United States

Henry (65)

A nice guy seeks nice girl Burke, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Penpal

If you are looking for a nice guy - that is me. I have been a widower since 2003 and it is time to look for a second great love-of-my-life. I enjoy exploring the Washington, DC area and manage to find something different to do all the time. Right now, I am looking to have fun, relax and enjoy the pleasant company of a beautiful woman. My favorite seasons are the summer and fall and I like to go biking, go to sporting events and generally be active and outside. I will also try anything once. If I have one problem it is time - I have family commitments, etc. I am the Dad of twin children who are away at college for most of the year. I don't have much extra time and I don't like to waste it. But once you get me out, you will have my full attention. Life is to enjoy and I fully intend to do just that. If I do say so myself, I am a fun date. Would I get married again? Well, if the right woman comes along, eventually, yes. It is hard to describe the type of woman I am looking for. I will know her when I meet her. I am a strong believer in Chemistry. The best way to describe Chemistry is the following: I am at a party and my lady has not arrived yet. Without even looking, I know when she has entered the room. That is Chemistry.

Kid is from United States

Kid (30)

survivor seeks strong woman Roanoke, Virginia, United States
Seeking: for Penpal

i'm the heroic type, adventurous, strong and brave, kind but not a pushover, I don't talk nearly as much as I like to listen, very sweet and genuinly good, very religious but i have no religion, tolorant of every kind of person, looking for a simpler life, a life of love and freedom, a life of honor and truth.

Antony is from United States

Antony (37)

100% dominicano Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

Soy un persona simple que le gusta divertirse y vivir la vida. Soy de la ciudad de Santiago, Republica Dominicana pero estoy en los Estados Unidos desde la Edad De Docenos. cresi en la Nueva York. Unos de mis pasatiempos es tocar musica. Yo toco piano y bajo. Mi musica faborita es salsa, merengue, reggeton, bachata, cumbia, hiphop, R&b, goslpe y perico ripia. En mi tiempo libre toco musica con grupos musicales en mi area. Mi profecion actual es Mecanico de Aviacion para las fuersas navales de los Estados Unidos. Tengo como 5 anos en mi profecion.


Jeremy is from United States

Jeremy (32)

faith to see where things take m... Manassas, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 35 for Penpal

There is a lot to say! But I I hope to find someone I can connect with! Originally from long island NY. with that I have a long island NY accent. Coffee, water, sandwich are those trouble words. college educated, was in the military, street smart. calm, collective, a driven ambition, I enjoy watching baseball and football-- Yankees and Giants all day! I enjoy All Kinds of food. I go to the gym, and trails for running. I love being out on the water, by boat or jet ski, I am a good cook, but don't cook as often as I like. I am a single dad, and when I mean dad. I mean, I am 100 percent involved in my sons life. A choice of responsible parenting, I think every son deserves a dad just like like a daughter to a mother. not just a pay check every month Well, hope to hear from you!


Mac is from United States

Mac (67)

Solo un tipo Lynchburg, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 60 for Penpal

Busco a un compañero de cambio de lengua. Quiero aprender el español. Si usted quiere aprender el inglés, póngase en contacto conmigo. I'm looking for a language exchange partner. I want to learn spanish. If you want to learn English, contact me.

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