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Richard
56 Reston, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 50
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Hi. I am planning to visit DR in the first half of 2020. I hope to meet someone I can meet when I am there and who would like to vacation with me at the beach. If all goes well we can then work towards a relationship and a life together. I'm a simple man who takes pleasure and finds joy in the simple things of life. I'm looking for a woman with a similar outlook. I'm looking for my soulmate and lover for life. I don't know if I can find her here. I hope I can. Write me only if you are interested in marriage. Sharing love in a committed, meaningful partnership amplifies the joys and eases the burdens of life. It is the only way we can achieve our full potential and realize the full measure of happiness and joy we are meant to have. I'm seeking genuine friendship and companionship with a woman who I can enjoy all sorts of fun activities with. A woman who can be just as happy hanging out doing "whatever" as she can taking part in making and executing grand plans. I am by nature quiet and reserved (ISTP), but I do enjoy meaningful conversation about the things that truly resonate and matter in life. I enjoy meeting after work for a walk, or some other fun activity... concerts, museums, bike rides, hikes. Ask me over to fix a leaky faucet or for yard work. Go for a drive, grab a quick bite to eat, or have a nice dinner, see a movie, a play. In short, I want to be involved in each other's real lives, including the mundane daily things. Ultimately I want a genuine connection and LTR... spiritual, emotional, physical. A life partner. I want to love and be loved, to give love and receive love. I have three adult daughters, all out on their own. I've lived in the DC area for 20 years. I grew up in Arizona, have a good career in IT. I have a calm, soft spoken nature, reserved, thoughtful, self aware. I'm an introvert, but social and engaging. I'm on a journey to become more self and spiritually aware, mindful of being in the present moment and to deepen my spirituality and connection with God. I enjoy daily meditating. I get a lot of satisfaction and fulfillment from helping others. I believe the very best thing one can do with their life is to do their best to bless the lives of others. I spend a significant amount of my spare time volunteering to help others. I particularly enjoy the persona, one-on-one opportunities to serve. About you: I'm not looking for just anyone. I'm looking for the right one. What really matters about you is not what you have, or what you do for a living, or where you've traveled, but rather who you are and how you treat others. Kindness and compassion for others are qualities I seek. If you practice meditation and have a relationship with God, those are definite pluses. You are also healthy, fit and active, you like being outdoors, or dressing up for a formal occasion. Enough can't be said for chemistry. It's either there, or isn't Maybe it's a matter of being in the right frame of mind, or perhaps it's just two people being on the same frequency. Who knows for sure? I only know it seems to be essential for a lasting relationship. I don't think it can be manufactured. Finally, if you made it this far, we all want to present our best self here in our profile. In reality we are all human, with hopes and dreams and good qualities, but also fears, flaws and insecurities, Let's be truthful and open. Be our true self. Like everyone, I am far from perfect and have made my share of mistakes and bad choices. I've had my share of sadness, disappointment, and broken hearts. I have also been the cause of some as well. I think I have learned from these life experiences, which have resulted in personal growth have helped me become a more compassionate and understanding, more loving and forgiving person each day. Some days I succeed. Some days I need could do better. I hope to meet someone on the same journey who agrees that our past does not have to determine our future. Best wishes to all. If any of this resonates, please send a brief note and say hello. It is the 21st century after all. Women have earned the right to make the first move. :) If all you do is look, and don't at least say hi, I can only assume you are not interested. I hope to hear from you.
Jamal
49 Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 42
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I only respond to messages so please message me you can just say hi. Loyalty over Love If you message me after reading this then you are cool person in my book and I want to meet you. I don't discriminate I am nice to all cool people. I will always be honest to my peers. Swag eh. I am too grown for that. Word wasn't invented til recently. My generation calls it OG i am that but not gang affiliated. Just an elder to the youths. Wisdom. So i am smart, wild, and crazy just to be honest. All in a good way. I will keep you laughing and the fun will never end with me. I am a partier without even leaving my house. I was raised completely right. I will never call you a name but I may call you out if its valid. I am not mean I am loving. Look up Taurus. I believe in signs and I get along best with my own kind other earth signs with the addition of Scorpio and cancer. Two very loving signs. I am very open likes everything. I am very real. More about me and what I like: I perfer to be with someone who has no restrictions or limitations on anything. Like what you eat, what music u listen to , where you go etc.... you need to be down to do anything. Yes eat oysters, crawfish, sushi, blue crabs unless your allergic. Listen to all music trip hop, funk, house, reggae, go go, salsa, African music etc... go anywhere top down not afraid of bugs swim in ocean at night. Stuff like that. The rest below is me just rambling you can read it if you want. Its good. Need someone who is commited. Whether we are married or not. I prefer Unity over anything else. Same page down for the cause. Stick to the plan. Lets see. I can't compare myself with dudes because I don't hang around them like that. Most of my friends are women. I like girls. Idk what to say. I feel that I am sensitive and compassionate to a women's needs. I can shop for you I can by your lipstick your shoes. I am older so I have been exposed to pretty much everything. I have an insight on most cultures and can fit right in. I guess you can say I'm well rounded. I like tomboy girls not afraid to get their hands dirty, have physical skills and dexterity. I am attracted to natural women who seem to be feminine and very pretty but a thug queen mentality (like Isis or princess Amadala or queen Andromeda from Buck Rodgers which ever you can identify with). I don't like women who are cute and loud and hide behind their men. I'm not trying to be a statistic. My females friends are gangsta in the mind(meaning extremely intelligent and on point) and really really can recognize a real man from a distance which is me(the kind of man yall say yall want in the majority of your profiles). Woman I attract are ones that are tired of the bullsh*t and are loners but would love to have a real man so to not always having to watch their own backs around catty women fake dudes (meaning you are all alone no real friends you have to protect yourself all the time no one to stand up for you no real partner a man to fight your psychological battles you have with yourself from dealing with the stress of life, people and work a confidant). I put my woman on a pedestal not a trophy. I treat women like how I treat my mother. I don't fight argue or get upset. You cannot ruin my day. I don't lie cheat or steal. I am not grimey a snake or fake the funk. I'm from the 70s we don't play games. I am not an exhibitionist. I can where many hats. I can be trusted. Many of the qualities I have I haven't found consistent in other people. I have read the Bible if that matters. Don't belong to a religion. You wouldn't be in one after reading. Anyway hit me up I respond to all messages. I can careless how you look or what culture creed religion nationality you are. Not really looking for the traditional relationship (Let me explain. I am a pro at the marriage game been married 3 times and engaged once. So I have a lot of experience with this. I left the 1st 3 and the last which I thought was the ONE left me. Marriage is a commitment both parties must be willing to never leave each other especially not for lying and cheating you gotta get over that love emotion that's just 1 leg of the foundation. Your realtionship can stand on 3 legs by themselves. But everyone tries to stand on the 1 leg of love and I guarantee you will need more than love to have a successful marriage. I can tell you more in detail later) OR trying to marry my best friend. I am not trying to lose my best friend also in case we divorce. Thats what usually happens. The best realtionship and longest lasting are my friendships. If something more spurs from that I am open. Update: 5/20 my experience with relationships has been a great learning experience. You have to take the good the bad and the ugly. You don't want to settle with somone who has a lot of one thing because it will not sustain you in the long run. So be prepared to settle with somone who is not perfect to you initially but they will be later and with more chances of a bonus. You have spent more time with them and found out new things that you wouldn't have known if you didn't try. My advice is to seek the Truth. The truth will set you free. You also have to be true to yourself. I would make an awesome friend. I'm a good one. I am usually in a relationship treating my woman very well. There just have been mismatches along this journey. So if you are up for the challenge and your a mature adult by all means hit me up. When I say mature I mean grown, traditional 70s values. Not what you see today. I am very much a child at heart. I will never act like an adult adult like your parents. There are people our age who act like that. That's not me. The college spirit and experience is still burning well in my lifestyle. Sincerity, Loyalty, Affection, Care, Wisdom and smelling BS a mile away are my greatest at
Alex
45 Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
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So here's the question-"Is it actually possible to find love(like) on an online dating site?" Maybe, maybe not! All I ask from any of you is PLEASE if you feel the need to mis-represent yourself, just skip my profile- thank you. A friend is like a flower, a rose to be exact, Or maybe like a brand new gate that never comes unlatched. A friend is like an owl, both beautiful and wise. Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost, whose spirit never dies. A friend is like a heart that goes strong until the end. Where would we be in this world if we didn't have a friend. I will admit that friendship is a good place to start a relationship but I am for the most part, looking for something pretty stable. Let's face it, dating isn't easy and finding the right one to date is even harder, but I think we all get points for just putting ourselves "out there" on this website. The woman for me is one that likes to do some of the same things but is also different enough that I could learn some things from her (or the opposite) Make sense? I would also like a woman that has a career or at least has a goal to have one. It doesn't matter how much money you make or don't make- as long as you can take care of yourself. Bottom line, I respect a woman that's making a living. The rest is icing- very good looking,funny, likes old school R&B, and kindness to respect me at all times as a man and a father. Other interest-I like to work out(not to the extreme) but enough to stay in shape. I also like to watch sporting events, basketball mainly(NBA) and football.

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