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Aqueel
43 Plainfield, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Self-confidence As someone with high self-confidence, you feel quite comfortable interacting with other people. Indeed, you find the company of others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. Your relaxed demeanor in groups makes people around you comfortable too. Perhaps because you feel comfortable talking about yourself, others tend to enjoy being around you and perceive you as socially competent. The confidence that helps you feel comfortable talking to people also spills into your own personal beliefs about yourself. Although you have several strengths, it’s likely that you also acknowledge and accept your weaknesses. But unlike some people, you take full responsibility for your actions—you rarely regret things you’ve done in the past and are not embarrassed easily. Perhaps the defining feature that sets you apart from most people is the exceptionally high standards that you set for yourself. Your competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very likely that people come to you for advice and generally think of you as someone with leader-like qualities. Family Orientation As someone who is oriented to familial matters, you value the company of family-members and domestic life. If you have children already, you enjoy spending time with them very much and work hard to be a good parent. If you don’t have children, you very much desire having children in the future. And your preference for cooking and entertaining guests at home will likely ease the transition into parenthood. You take pride in maintaining and cultivating a healthy family and work hard to achieve this. This natural tendency is easily illustrated by your preference for doing things around the house as opposed to going out to clubs and restaurants. What really sets you apart from people that are low in family orientation is that you know how to manage your frustrations and work well on your own. This means that you are well-equipped to manage a family without letting all the work that is involved wear you down. However, as someone with strong family values, all the work that is involved in maintaining a tidy home and well-stocked kitchen might occasionally make it difficult for you to finish everything that you need to do. Self-Control The self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a person regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in self-control can be both good and bad. Occasionally people may be compelled to follow their intuitions and give in to their temptations, and your degree of self-control makes this likely to happen more often than not. This can be good in circumstances where being relaxed and open are important. However, in situations where it is necessary to be focused and careful, you might find that you do or say things that may be inappropriate. As someone who exerts little control over your actions, you may find that you commit social blunders that might offend other people and get yourself in trouble. For example, if you’re given responsibility to work on a project that requires close attention to detail, you may be likely to overlook important details because you have difficulty staying focused. Consequently, you might feel more comfortable delegating such tasks to other people who are more detail oriented. Being able to recognize such characteristics in yourself and having more detail-oriented people do such tasks could be an effective way to manage your own stress level. Low self-control may diminish your effectiveness at work. Acting too relaxed can make it difficult for you to focus on projects that require organized sequences of steps or stages. Thus, your ability to accomplish may be inconsistent. Indeed, it’s possible that you might be criticized periodically for being unreliable or unable to “stay within the lines.” Nonetheless, you may still experience many short-lived pleasures and never be thought of as boring. Openness As someone high in openness, you have a strong appreciation for beauty, both in art and nature. Indeed, it’s likely that you are easily absorbed in music and art, as well as natural phenomena. Another aspect of your openness is your emotional insight; that is, you probably have good access to and awareness of your own emotions. Another aspect of the openness dimension is the tendency to think about abstract concepts and ideas. This thinking style may take the form of artistic and metaphorical use of language, and/or music composition or performance. Thus, it is likely that, either in your work or spare time, you enjoy activities that get your “creative juices” flowing. Your tendency to be open-minded can have advantages and disadvantages. For instance, when there are no clear rules about how to approach a particular problem, your openness makes it easier for you to identify new ways to solve problems that might not be very obvious to people that are not as open as you are. In contrast, you may be bored easily in situations that lack high amounts of intellectual stimulation. In such cases, you might have difficulty excelling on projects that do not provide much stimulation or require much creative thinking. Easygoingness Easygoingness refers to one's ability to relax. Based on your score, you appear to “take things as they come” and enjoy having a good time. However, being high in easygoingness also has the potential to produce stress in a number of ways. For example, you may find it difficult to complete tasks thoroughly and efficiently. In this way, being high in easygoingness cannot only make your life difficult, but also the lives of the people around you. Another potential problem with being too high in easygoingness is that it can provide you with gratification in the short-term, but in the long-term provide undesirable consequences. High easygoingness, even when not seriously destructive, may also diminish your effectiveness at work, for example. You may find it aversive and difficult to put in all the effort that may sometimes be needed to effectively accomplish certain tasks. For this reason, your colleagues might view you as forgetful and unfocused. How does your personality affect your love life? With the strong degree of self-confidence that you possess, it’s no surprise that you get along well with most people. Indeed, it’s self-confidence that allows people to feel comfortable interacting with others without feeling insecure and vulnerable. For this reason, you shouldn’t have much difficulty in romance, at least not initially. Your social skills will likely help relieve any anxiety your romantic partners might have on those first few dates. However, over time, the high standards that you have for yourself could potentially frustrate your partner. Given how much you value family life, you probably get along best with people who share your values and beliefs. In fact, it’s likely that you maintain close connections with members of your immediate and distant family. For this reason, you would probably be most satisfied in a romantic relationship with someone who also values domestic life. Being in a relationship with someone who enjoys going out to parties and staying-up late at night might be fun, at least initially; yet it’s likely that you will find this tiring over time. Thus, it might be easier and more satisfying for you to develop a long-lasting relationship with a person who also enjoys spending time at home and desires starting a family. As someone who is more relaxed than most people, you likely get along with most people quite well. Chances are that your friends and colleagues perceive you as lively, fun to be with, and good-humored. When it comes to romance, you’ll likely be attracted to most people. However, your free-spirited nature might make being in a relationship with a person that is more rigid than you difficult because you might perceive the person as being too uptight and controlling. Your openness probably makes it easy for you to respect and appreciate people that are different from you. However, when it comes to romantic relationships, your openness might make it difficult for you to tolerate people that cannot appreciate diversity as much as you. Therefore, you may be happiest in serious relationships with people that share your open-mindedness. But, your openness might occasionally cause a certain degree of dependency on your end because you may be so open that you easily adopt the preferences and habits of your partners and gradually relinquish things that make you so unique.
Ruddy
31 Bayonne, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 22
Hello, there my name is Ruddy (just say it how they said it in the movie Rudy). I’m Dominican even though most people say they can’t really tell must be something to do with me not being loud. I’m 5’5” and got a good build to me. I was born in Brooklyn but grew up in Jersey City most of my live. I spend most of my time at the gym, reading, abusing Netflix etc during the day and most nights I tend to try and hang out with my friends and family since we are all so busy. I tend to prefer small group settings over big ones but can easily enjoy both just the same. I love just walking around and seeing/trying new things. I am a very laid back, optimistic, and light hearted person. I'm a strong believer in not letting myself dwell on negative emotions because they are generally a waste of time. I love a big helping of humor in my life, love discussing and sharing intellectual conversations, and am very dedicated to my friends and family. It doesn't take very long for me to open up to people and feel comfortable talking about just about anything. I believe that a big part of growing up is being able to appreciate the little details in life. While I’m not bogged down with school work or away for some training I like just taking it easy but once I’m focused on a task well there just isn’t much that would stop me. I currently got two tattoos and already know that I want more as soon as I can get them. P.S. I’m a United States Marine and no we are not all jar heads or dumb and even all that mean (unless we have to be ) but in general terms we more or less like everyone else. I look forward to hearing from you and sorry for the long rant.
John
59 New Brunswick, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female
Hello! My name is John, and I am an unmarried American man. Search for John Solteiro on face book and find me. I'm kind, decent, respectful, lonely, and genuine about finding one true love. I am reasonably intelligent, but I *suck* at math! I also have a good sense of humor and like to be playful and tell jokes. I work hard, and usually stay home when I am not working. I make enough to support myself and save a little for when I get old. I am not rich and I do not have a lot, but what I have - I would share with you. I can try to support us both, but if we both work we can probably live much more comfortably. I have a good life, but sometimes I get a little sad. Maybe if I had a good wife to share life with, I would be happier! :D The girls I work with think I am a catch, they do not understand why I don't have a girlfriend or wife. I have never been married and have no children. I had chances to be married twice, but I was too young and immature. (One of my great loves was a black girl.) Now I regret not marrying. I'm older and it is hard to find someone I want to be with, who wants me too. I guess the reasons I don't have someone are complicated. I am not married at my age, I think in part because I fancy brown-skinned girls. I have dated many American black, latin, and Asian girls, but I have found few that share my values. It seems American girls like to party all the time, be waited on, and always go shopping. That is too spoiled and materialistic for me. I think foreign girls may be different. You tell me! I am not ugly, and nothing major is wrong with me, though I am not perfect. Who is? I don't have any diseases or things like that. I do have a *little* belly. Not huge - just little. One girl I work with says some women like a man with a belly. Still, I should probably get more exercise and eat better food. I can cook but it is too much trouble for one person, so I usually eat take-out or frozen food. That's not always healthy food, and I'm sure that's part of why my belly is not so flat and hard! I am a quiet man. I do not like to party all the time and go to clubs and always be running around. A perfect night for me would be to snuggle under a blanket on the couch and watch TV. I am happy to do that most nights. I like to watch comedies, old black and white movies, sci-fi, cartoons, documentaries and educational shows. I am not much interested in sports. Sometimes I like to go to live theater, concerts, or restaurants. I listen to mostly rock music, but I like other kinds too. I don't really dance because I am too self-conscious. Maybe we could slow dance if I have you to hang onto? So, I'd like to sit under that blanket by the TV, and snuggle and cuddle and hug you. If you had a hard day I would rub your feet. I hope you will rub mine too! :D I like simple things, like I said - a warm comfortable home and good food. Movies, television, internet, music and video games. I like children. I like animals, and I have had pets in the past, but not right now. Of course I like sex, but I won't address that because I don't want to seem like a pervert that is only interested in that. Trust me, that is important but it is not my only interest. I don't want to write too much more, because I will have nothing to tell you if you contact me. Search for John Solteiro on face book and find me. Write to me and ask about my job or my religion or my family or my politics or that thing (sex) I wouldn't talk about. Ha ha! Whatever you want to know, I will tell you the honest answer. But you have to make the effort and write to me. I hope you will!

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