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nuno
44 Boston, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 51
Appearance: Average
Hello! My name's Nuno Miguel, and I was born on March 12, 1981. I'm 44, single, with no kids, and I've been living in England since May 12th, 2000, when I came to the UK by bus. It's been 25 years now, and it was an interesting journey! Do I regret coming to the UK? Never. I've learned so much, and I'm hoping to stay here a bit longer, or maybe live in another country in the future. I'm 1.75m (5'9") tall and weigh 98kg (216 lbs). I like to dress casually; I'm not big on formalities in everyday wear. My mother, Maria, shares my birthday: March 12, 1962. It's also interesting that my brother Vรญtor, who lives in Germany/Luxembourg, has his birthday on February 11, 1985, and my grandmother, Maria dos Santos, shares that same birthday, February 11, 1933. I work full-time, 37 hours a week, as a cleaning operative. My job isn't the most glorious; I clean prisoner's cells, ensuring they're sanitized, filling out paperwork, and I also have to clean two outbuildings. It's a job that pays the bills, ensures I don't go hungry, and it helps me see the world and travel. I don't really care what I do for a living; what matters is earning money so I can travel, meet people, buy what I want, and experience the world the way I choose. My job shouldn't be a reason to judge me; I don't rely on anyone else to pay my bills. It's a respectable job, I don't steal from anyone, and at least I'm doing something with my life. I've had opportunities, like everyone else, but that's in the past. I focus on today and try to become a better person. My Life and Perspective Let's be real, with no censorship. Any criticism should be based on facts and be constructive. I don't want you to think I'm perfect, because I'm not. I'm not here to please anyone. What you see is what you get. As you get to know me, you'll see I'm genuine, expressive, and outgoing, but at times, I can be an introvert, sometimes keeping to myself. This is just who I am. I'm just an average individual, with average looks. I can be crazy, stubborn, and sometimes a little lazy. I know happiness can be achieved, and I would love to have that happiness I've always wanted. When I was a kid, I never had that, so I'm craving that special feeling. It may sound "blah blah blah," but it isn't. I know that at my age, I'm entitled to be happy, be free, and reach my true potential as a human being. When I talk about myself, I'm not being negative. I'm showing you the real me, with no filters, with nothing to hide. I'm like this: forthcoming, genuine, expressive, and to the point. I love being like this; it makes me true to myself. This might seem more like a book than anything else, and I know it can be a bit boring, but every experience should be shared. It shows the appreciation we have for the world we live in and the things we need to do to preserve it. I'm very forthcoming with my thoughts; this is who I am, and I'm not changing for anyone else. There may well be people who don't like my approach, but I don't really care. I've been deceived a couple of times, so I'm just being cautious, and there's nothing wrong with being cautious. Be honest, genuine, expressive, open-minded, be yourself, and don't hide anything; you'll achieve beautiful things for being such a person. I understand why people are single, like me. I've been single most of my adult life. There's nothing wrong with me; probably, it's because women want someone with stability, who is ready for a relationship, who wants kids, etc. As I said, I'm not every woman's cup of coffee, your slice of cake, or your knight in shining armor, and I don't have to be. If I'm not, there are many others who will be able to bestow love toward you. Gentleman or not, they shall be at your disposal around the internet. The internet is marvelous; it opens new opportunities, enables you to meet someone who may be miles and miles away, and it even creates employment opportunities. The woman who comes to me has to see me for who I am. If there are things I need to change, then I'll change them, but I will not change 360 degrees to please someone to like me. I am just me. I understand that it's difficult to find genuine people who want a serious relationship, but we have to be careful; anyone can take a photo and pretend to be someone else. That's why I take any advice seriously. I'm not here to judge and be judged. I'm also not here to judge people because of their culture, customs, social norms, language, or the color of their skin. What matters most is that we create understanding, respect, and mutual friendship. It's amazing when people come together for a common purpose. We are 8.3 billion people around the world, so it's important that your identity and who you are are respected. I have given up on many things in my life. I have been living here in the UK for the last 25 years, and my life has been like a rollercoaster. I have doubted my capabilities, and many have even highlighted those things to me, however, I kept ignoring them. In life, there is no easy path you can take, where there are signs to indicate which path you have to take; you live and you learn, and that is what life is. You experience the world, learn and evolve. I am ready to evolve, develop new skills, understand more about who I am as a person, and one day fulfill my ambition and potential in being the best version of myself. If you're a scammer looking for money, get a job. If you're having a tough life and want me to send you money, go elsewhere or find yourself a job. It's easy for you to ask for money from someone you don't even know. I work hard just like everyone else on this planet. Get a job, make something out of the life you have left, instead of asking for handouts from someone you've never met or randomly target. There are always a few people on this site and others who ask for money, and it's been a frequent occurrence. I'm not passing judgment, but if you're reading my profile and you want me to pay your bills, school fees, rent, etc., find yourself a good job. I'm sure you have a brain like I do, and you can work your way up. Don't rely on handouts. If you're a scammer using someone else's photo, but you're actually in Africa, you're denigrating your brothers from Africa. Don't be like that, just be genuine, don't hide behind someone else's face. You're not doing yourself or the world any favors. You're just making yourself look foolish. I'm sure you're intelligent enough to earn money honestly by working. Family and Travel Experiences I have four siblings: Marcelo, 42; Vรญtor, 40, who's in Luxembourg; and Valter, 46, who lives here in England and runs his own parcel delivery business. I live with my mum, Maria, who's 63, and my brother William, who's 23. I have three nieces: Lara, Eva, and Ana Clara. My supposedly father is from Angola, so I can say that I have some African blood in me, if I am allowed to say that. Most of his family is from Angola, specifically Luanda and Huila. I even have cousins from South Africa, and I believe they live in Durban. Maybe one day I can go there and visit them, even though I don't even know their address. I enjoy traveling, chatting with people from different cultures, and exploring the world and all it offers. I've been to Brazil multiple times: in 2005 for two weeks in Rondรดnia, then in 2007 for two months in the same state, 2011 for three weeks, 2013, and 2015 when I stayed in Sรฃo Paulo for two months (loved it!). I returned in 2018 for a full week, and most recently in 2024, visiting Belรฉm (Parรก), Fortaleza, Salvador (Bahia), and Foz do Iguaรงu, where I'll be until December 9th, 2024. I also went to the US for a week, visiting New York, and loved it, getting to see the Statue of Liberty and the 9/11 Memorial site. I lived and worked in Reykjavik, Iceland, in April 2007 for 8 months, as a Warehouse operative. It was okay; it's beautiful, the summer days were long, with short winters. I went to the Dominican Republic for 2 weeks in August 2009. I absolutely loved it, especially visiting "Los Tres Ojos" (The Three Eyes), which are lagoons, and Christopher Columbus's lighthouse, where some say he is buried. In 2011, I went to Bolivia, visited Cochabamba, and saw some of my ex-sister-in-law's cousins; they were studying medicine, as in Bolivia everything was cheap, but I'm sure it's not so cheap now. In 2010, I visited the Philippines, staying in Cebu for 2 days and then spending about 3 weeks in Zamboanga del Norte. It was amazing when I found out a language similar to Spanish, Chavacano, was spoken there. Also in 2010, I went to Indonesia, where I visited the largest Buddhist temple called Borobudur, as well as Prambanan, which are both really beautiful and not far from Yogyakarta, which used to be Indonesia's old capital. The only place left to visit is Angola, which is where my supposed father was born. It must be beautiful, with its panoramic views. The Search for Love and Friendship I'm surely looking for love, care, understanding, compassion, dignity, integrity, friendship, complicity, and so many other things from a woman. However, I'm not going to fall for a woman who lies, deceives, disrespects my inner being, who doesn't understand me, and someone who doesn't care about my feelings. If you're looking for a sugar daddy, someone who will just be there to pay bills, I'm not what you seek. If you're aged between 18-30, I'm 44, and you know, I don't like playing games. I know age is just a number, but it would be better if you could also look at other profiles around your age range. Just imagine me being with a woman who is 20 and me 44? That's a 24-year difference, and when I get older, I would feel that I'm stealing your youth. You can always find someone who is around your age range, maybe 5-10 years difference, that should be it. I don't mind falling for a woman who is a lot younger than me, but consider my point of view; it doesn't do any harm. Do I want kids? I don't think so. It's not that I don't like them; I just don't have the time or maybe the patience. If you're looking for someone who wants kids in the future, maybe I'm not what you're looking for. I don't want you to waste your time on someone who doesn't want to have kids in the future; I'm just being honest. That's all. I don't mind if a woman already has adult children. I'm being honest, and honesty shouldn't be taken as an offense. Love or no love, that's the question in our reality. Finding love online is possible, but it also has its cultural and linguistic barriers, and misunderstandings can arise due to differences. I'm adaptable to whatever comes my way. As a human being, I'm always learning and applying what I learn. Even when I make mistakes, I see them as learning experiences, so I live and learn. The reality of long-distance relationships is that they happen, but they need mutual respect, legitimacy, and trust. I know true love exists, and even at 44, I won't let my age be an obstacle. I want to embark on the journey to find my true happiness. The real journey of discovering love is when you find someone who accepts you as you are, who doesn't judge you, who respects you, who wants you just as you are. I know I'm not perfect, but I truly believe my imperfections make me the person I am. And I wasn't born to please anyone. I am, in fact, an imperfect person, straightforward and honest. I am who I am. My approach might not be pleasant for many people, but that's me. I won't hide in a cave or isolate myself because of negative comments some people might throw my way. Friendship and Freedom Looking for friendship? No problem, I'm looking for friends too. Sometimes, friends are much better than a romantic relationship. Being single has its perks: you can go out, travel, and talk to whoever you want, without having to give explanations or face demands from a partner.